Dear So & So

Wow it's been awhile since I have done this.I don't even remember the auctual day to do it so I choose to do it on Friday's.Here it goes!
1.Dear Friend,Please leave soon.You do not have to hang around for a whole week terrorizing me!
2.Tom,Thank You for making my day's fly by and for loveing me and the kids they way you do.You are a very caring man!I love you
3.Dear Kaden,Thank You for giving mommy lot's of laughs throughout the day.I enjoy the time we spend together and will miss it a ton next year when you go to school.
4.Dear Donald,Please get a job and pay your child support!That's the only nice thing I can think of to tell you!
5.Dear Tommy,It's your girlfriend,not mine so you deal with her and leave me out of it.
6.Dear Sarah,I miss seeing you and the kids,Hopefully it won't be long before we can meet up for a good visit.
7.Dear Sarah,What makes you think I would put you on my phone plan?Your 14 not 40 so start acting your age!
8.Dear Justin,Kelsey,Brenten,and Ashley,I love you all very much.I'm so glad I get to spend all the home time with you guy's.I know you miss your dad and maybe someday he will realize that he hurt you guy's to make himself happy.
And that is my post for this Friday.Have a Safe Happy Weekend!

It's Almost Friday!!!!

We have made it thru most of the week which only means it's almost Friday!I love Friday's because it means I have to get the house picked up for the weekend.I'm still attempting to get things back in order from Christmas.I did manage to get the toy's sorted and yet another bag that needs to go elsewhere'don't care where they go but they can't stay here!I heard yesterday that our old pastor is in ICU on life support (he is as old as my dad) so prayer's go out for him.The Tahoe part should be in today so maybe it will fix that thing for awhile.It broke down on me again Tuesday so we pushed it back up to the school and let it sit there then yesterday the school called for me to go get a sick kid and the trusty Ranger would not start for anything so I borrowed Tommy's car.I'm just waiting on taxes so I can get a new ride!I will NOT buy a Chevy that's for certain!Funny thing is I had a Chevy Camaro that I drove for 5 years then I had to many kids so I bought a Chevy Pickup and drove it for 5 years but haven't had a good Chevy since then.I bet I could buy the Camaro back but I have more kids now then I had then so that might not be a good idea.I have a ton of stuff to get on Craiglist by tomorrow and a house needing some tlc but something tells me this aint the day it's going to happen.I could change my mind on that after I get some coffee running through me.I try to call my cousin once a week since I rarely get to see her and I passed her Tuesday I think it was and man it felt good to see her.I don't see very many people since I moved so it sure is good to see people around town.Tomorrow I am shooting to start a blog like I once done.Wish me luck and hopefully I don't forget.Have a great day everyone!

Begining the New Year

I can't believe it's 2011 already!2010 was a very fast year for me.Here are a few good/bad things that happened in 2010..
1.My ex sat all the kids belongings and part of mine on th curb (good)
2.I met the man that I thought didn't exist
3.I have been in a relationship with Mr.Perfect for 9 months with NO fighting or arguing
4.Tahoe broke down 7 months ago
5.Got Tahoe running Monday 1-3-2011
6.Trusted Tahoe enough to take it to town 1-4-2011 but broke down again
7.Watched my kiddos get another year older
8.Watched my kids come out of their skittish selfs (they now have good male influence with no fears)
9.Put on a few extra pounds
10.Watched all my life long dreams come true!
It might not sound like much but it is alot to me.I didn't make any resolutions this year but decided to take it one day at the time.My goal for this day is to get the house picked up and back in order.Christmas break for the kids means no time to do deep cleaning..just pick up enough toy's so you can have a path to the front door.Tom had to go to work early this morning for a city counsil meeting and it's not yet time to get the kids up for school so I thought it was the perfect blog time.I'm thinking about electing one day per week to do some sort of "special" blog but haven't decided on what to do yet.I'm sure I will think of it soon.Thank each and every one of you for reading my blog.Have a wonderful day!

Pics that didn't get posted with the last post

Christmas Day

Christmas Day was a great day!My kids have alway's went to bed Christmas Eve and slept all night..Not this year!The kids went to bed at 9pm and at 11pm I heard feet on the floor so I got out of bed to see which child it was,It was kaden sitting with his stocking!Out of 8 stockings he found his lol.When he noticed we had spotted him he very quickly laid down and pretended to  be asleep.He ended up sleeping with me and Tom that night with no more trouble from him.Not long after Kaden fell asleep another child got up.Finally we realized those kids was working shifts and once every 5 minutes someone was up checking stockings!They never touched the presents under the tree thank goodness.At 5:20am Christmas morning Tommy woke me up so we could all open presents which meant waking all the kids from their long night.I was all for it thinking they would take a nap sometime.Well we opened all the presents and I put the ham and turkey in the oven and yep I went back to bed and slept til Tom woke me up at 9:20am.We then proceeded to finish cooking and picking up all the trash before the company arrived.Our neighbor and my parents came to eat with us.They all laughed and chatted and just really made my house noisey lol.We all enjoyed ourselves but once all the company was gone me and Tom both went back to sleep.This time we slept for about 2 hours then once again got woke up.It was a very long never ending day but it was great!I hope to have many more holidays just like it!Sunday morning I dropped the kids with my ex's mom so she could have Christmas with them.I did proceed to pick most of them back up (Kelsey and Brenten stayed but Brenten came home yesterday and Ashley went to stay with my mom until tonight).I was having a mean dream about my ex last night something about me letting him know I could have his house and truck and there was nothing he could do about it then I heartd kids and woke up to Justin and Brenten going at it full force.BLAH not a great way to start the day but everyone survived and they have seperated themselves from each other so now it's a good day!I have done laundry and cleaned the kitchen and living room today so now all I have to do is wait on the propane man to get here.Do you see this picture of Tom scrubbing the toilet?I miss placed him on Christmas Day and this is what I found him doing!I knew I got my Mr.Perfect this time!On New Year's day it will be our 9 month anniversary so we are dropping the kids off at the sitter and going out for a couple of hours.Justin just informed me that there is a skunk outside so I went to the window to see the stinky thing walking toward Kaden so I ran to the door and got Kaden in the house and just a few seconds later the stinky thing was on the porch!We have 2 stray dogs that are keeping the stinky thing trapped now so we just will be spending the day in the house.I think thats all for now!

Merry Christmas

Christmas is finally upon us!I have gotten everything done except the cooking and I started that this morning.Tonight we go to Tom's parents to do Christmas then tomorrow we will have ours at home.Last Saturday we went to my parents to do Christmas there.I don't ever recall going to so many places lol.The neighbor lady has had to put her husband in the nursing home and he now lays in icu so I invited her to our place for Christmas and she said she would be here.All her kids and step kids live in Alaska so she has no close family and it's just not right to spend the holiday's alone.I  have added some recent pics.Kaden had asked Santa for a tractor he could ride and since Tom works at the transfer station someone brought in a John Deere tractor and brought it home for lil man and he lives on that thing.I feel very blessed this year!I caught word yesterday that my ex is gonna be a daddy so congrats to him!I now have my 5 kids full time and they are enjoying that.They was tired of bouncing back and forth.My ex was polite enough to text me to let me know he no longer wished to have the kids for visits any longer and he would be willing to sign what parental rights he had away.That was fine n dandy with  me!I know it's a short post so enjoy the pics.Until next time...Merry Christmas and Happy New year!

AHHHH I have internet again!

It's has been busy around here.I haven't had the chance to post anything since I haven't had a computer but I finally broke down and bought a laptop.Deer season has opened here and Tom and I have been taking my oldest Justin to the woods so he can try to get a deer.He has had one good chance but since him and Tom was sleeping instead of watching he missed it.Now your probaly wondering what I have been up to...Well Ashley turned 7 on the 6th,Brenten got kicked off the school bus for 3 day's getting to ride it again today,Deer hunting,Moving my mother,and I think thats about it.The Holiday's are approaching rather quickly and this does excite me.My ex no longer gets the kids (not because I don't want him to see them it was just his choice).I was also informed from my ex that he shouldn't have to pay child support for something I done (I'm just good like that to create 5 kids alone).Thats ok because his money ain't good enough anyway.Tom and I are still going strong and the kids have really bonded with him well.I can tell he honestly loves the kids and they love him too.I'm waiting on the cable guy to get here so he can get the cable straightened out.